Anal sex tips or the secret pleasures
Although some still consider it as a taboo, anal sex is increasingly taking a more important part in people’s sex lives, for both sex. In order to make your backdoor fun as pleasurable as it should be, you’ve got to make sure of a few things. So here are my best anal sex tips for him and her!
Anal Sex Tip #1 Ready
Preparation for sodomy is important. Make you that you are clean inside out. It is highly recommended to do an anal detox (or enema) a few hours before the relation. It may sound a bit of a constraint but it will definitely give you peace of mind when you get into action. It is a good idea to clean shave your anal region too, as it will make it nicer for both partners.
Anal Sex Tip #2 Steady
If you are still new in the anal sex arena, I will advise you to find a comfortable position in which you can relax. It is important that you do relax, as it is the key to a pleasant first penetration. I find it easy to lay on my tummy, legs slightly opened, and just enjoy being anally pleased! Spooning position offers a quite soft penetration for a start too. Don’t go for direct penetration. Rather, use your tongue, finger, feather, or any adapted sex toys to stimulate the anal zone.
Anal Sex Tip #3 Go!
Before you dig into that secret hole, make sure you use a lot of lube. There is no problem overusing it. You can find some nice scented and even edible lubes in most pharmacies, supermarkets and drug stores. So this tight little hole is now lubricated and ready to be introduced? Go for it! But then, go slowly. Slide in slowly, gently, and let your partner guide you. Stop if you are asked to. Once you found your way into the sacred region, you can start to increase the pace and intensity little by little.
Anal Sex Tip #4 Prostatically Yours
Even if they hardly admit it straight away, men do like anal stimulation, and get a lot of pleasure to be touched back there! I am not talking about gays or even bisexual guys, for them we know it for a fact! But most straight men can hardly resist the insertion of a finger or even a butt plug when receiving a blow job for example. It is most likely to make them burst in your mouth in no time when you do it!
Anal Sex Tip #5 Rear Orgasm
Talking about bursting, only a small percentage of men and women can achieve actual orgasm through exclusive anal sex stimulation. Butt! Oops, I mean: But! Even though it may not solely bring you to climax, ass fucking, toying or stimulating will definitely heighten the intensity of your pleasure.
Anal Sex Tip #6 Front & Back
This leading to that, multiple points of pleasure can achieve mind boggling orgasms, so don’t hesitate, while opening the backdoor of your other half, to tease him or her in other sensitive parts. It could be as simple as pinching her nipples while you ass fuck her, or finger fucking your girl with the index in her cunt and the medium in her ass at once, or sucking a hard juicy cock while playing with his prostate. But remember the elementary hygiene rules: going from pussy to ass is fine, but from ass to pussy is a “no”, at least not until you changed condom or cleaned your tool thoroughly. You definitely don’t want your partner to get any kind of vaginal infection.
And remember, as Sigmund Freud used to say: “Half of analysis is anal”! Enjoy anal sex!