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Threesome: Your Guide to Make it Awesome!

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Here is the best way to satisfy your threesome fantasy!

This tops most of men’s fantasy list and usually happens at college. If you think you like to be in the shoes (or sheets maybe) of having your bed (and partner!) shared with another one all together, then this guide is just for you, to help you make the most of your threesome experience!

Threesome Tip #1 Ask don’t Tell

Never pressure anyone into doing the deed. It may be just you who is wanting the threesome experience but not the others. Maybe your partner feels forced to do it just to please you. Do not be so dense to feel they do not like the idea. No matter how much you like the adventure, to take note of your partner’s thoughts counts too. Don’t let the excitement blind you from taking this point into account before indulging to the idea.

Threesome Tip #2 Pick the right people

Before planning out the threesome, ask yourself what situation you would like to have. And what combination suits you best. Do you want it to be 2 females and 1 male? Or the other way around? Would you prefer straight people, or are you open to bi and gays? Narrow down your choices. Think of what type of enjoyment are you looking for. Do not hesitate to involve gays and lesbians to expand your horizons and experiences. Give it some thought before you end up wanting the other type of mix more than what you have in your bed.
A sample combination could be:
FMF/MFM/FML/FMG/FFF/GGG…
Whatever threesome combination your choose for Partner+Stranger+You, just make sure that everyone involved will have a good time.

Threesome Tip #3 Take precautions with the people involved

Doing this threesome experience (a fantasy more likely) can be very exciting for you, however, you can’t just ask anyone you happen to like to be part of the 3s. Adding another body into your sexual life means taking a big leap to widen and open up your sexuality into another level. Just be sure to tell your partner that this is only for the spice of it. For the hot experience and not because he/she is not good enough in bed for you. Make it clear before you plan a tryst, else your sweet relationship might just go sour.

Threesome Tip #4 Make the rules

If it is your bed, you set your 3some rules! Is it only for the spice? Shall it be all penetration? Are all holes a go? Or no ass, no pussy? Oral only? Can anyone kiss anyone? Will all of you sleep together after the 3s fun or playmates must go home? Set the limits and know the capabilities and the preferences of each of you. This will avoid confusion and mostly emotional strings.

Threesome Tip #5 Don’t get wasted

Drinking is fine. It adds to the moment of passion and lust. It makes your inhibitions go out the window. But keep in mind that you are to experience something new and tasteful. Getting drunk would not help a bit. Alcohol impairs your judgements. It may likely make you forget the rules. Besides, if you had too many drinks, it is most likely that you won’t remember a thing. It defeats the purpose all in all.

Threesome Tip #6 Play it safe

Make sure to mentally note that changing condoms every time you switch partners (or sex toys) for penetration. This is applicable for conventional sex as much as for anal sex of course. Never go from ass to pussy unless you changed. This will also avoid diseases you and your partners may get in the long run. Condoms and those dental dams can be used for oral sex. It is safe and fun to do it with those you trust. Have sex with people you know who take good care of their sexual health. This will save you the many hassles, for sure.

Threesome Tip #7 Be prepared on fallouts

Once threesome sex is over, things may get awkward, especially if they are strangers or friends. Make sure that everyone follows the rules you set earlier, especially on who is doing what and going where after the fun. For your partner, make it clear that it is him/her that you care about first and foremost. And talk about the experience together , share the things you both liked and disliked to make sure that next time will be even more awesome.

Having a 3some is great fun. Make sure that you get into it well prepared in order to enjoy threesome to the max!

xoxo

4 thoughts on “Threesome: Your Guide to Make it Awesome!

  1. Ha ha! Threesome is much like an urban legend – everybody heard of, but almost nobody did it. And many of the people who yet did it ruined their relationships when they started to feel jealousy they hadn’t expected before. One of friends of mine unfortunately did something like that and then regretted it so much that fell into deep depression for months. Not everyone is able to predict their emotions that come after such an extreme act. This is a sport only for tough guys and girls.

    1. Come on, what do you mean by almost nobody did it? Most of my friends did! Including myself! That is why the first tip is to talk about it before hand. And fix the rules. You tell us about your friends, but what about you did you try it?
      Pouty kisses

      Angelicka

      1. You did it and you liked it because it suited your personality, your mindset and your system of values. And that’s nice.

        I meant a situation when someone improperly assessed their limits and despite having discussed the idea with the partners and having fixed the rules rules becomes surprised with their own negative emotions and mental or moral burden. Someone may think it would be great fun but what if experiences guilt, remorses and disgust (also towards the partners) after the whole thing happens? Some people just cannot deal with such hardcore experiences, but they might think they can.

        The issue is to know own limits, own personality and to correctly predict own emotions that a certain behavior can trigger.

        1. Dear Jst,

          Yes you are right. I am not saying everyone should do it, I am just giving tips for those who want to try. What you are saying is true for everything in life, you have to know yourself, and know what you want.

          Kisses

          Angelicka

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